Parental Discipline Without Provocation
We teach our kids more than "right and wrong" when we discipline them - we teach them about how to deal with with our anger directed at others and disagreements. We teach them the relationship between love and the correcting hand of a parent. Therefore, how we discipline, from start to finish, is as important as the discipline itself. Do we demonstrate self-control? Do we model authority under God when we call them to obey authority? Finally, are we more concerned with the child's behavior than the child's heart? Kevin DeYoung channels Martyn Lloyd-Jones and posts the following : In Ephesians 6:4 , God tells fathers (though I think the application is fair for both parents) to raise children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. He also warns against provoking our children to anger. So how do we do one without the other? How do we discipline exasperating kids without in turn exasperating them unnecessarily? Commenting on th...