Just some food for thought: " Bitterness is the pill we eat hoping that it will poison someone else " (Unknown) Ephesians 4:31-32: " Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. " Romans 14:10-13: " Why do you pass judgment on your brother? Or you, why do you despise your brother? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God; for it is written, “As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.” So then each of us will give an account of himself to God. Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother. " One more passage to consider - Col 3:8, 9, 12, 13 " But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from