We should be in daily worship of God if we can have any hope of living out the Gospel. This is true, of course, whether we are married or not. That one has a spouse that is (like me) muscular, suave, yet sensitive and oh-so-humble is only one aspect of true joy in life. Our marriages are precious, but they can breed idols that turn us away from the supremacy of Christ. I've quoted from Stuart Scott's The Exemplary Husband a couple of times before, and here is another section of his book I wanted to share. John Calvin is often quoted as saying that our hearts are idol-factories, and Scott does a good job in highlighting some of the idols we have in a relationship. First, he notes (90) that when we worship something, we will: Adore it Sacrifice for it Focus on it Submit to it Seek after it Hope in it Serve it/ give to it Speak about it Look to it for peace, meaning, and happiness Spend a great amount of thoughts, time, energy, and resources...